This is what I have concerned lately.. Firstly, I want to ask, could you choose any people that you will love? I beg, if they could control their feeling well, they would choose any people who are rich, famous, smart, even perfect to be loved to. But, the matter is, people could not control their feeling. There is a saying, "you can choose whom you will marry but you can't choose whom you will love." I completely agree with the saying. Nah, now, how if you love someone who has different culture with you? how if he/she is not from the same ethnic? how if he/she has religion that is different with you or he/she does not have religion? will you still defend him/her??
I often ask... (absolutely my mind always ask me this question) is the matter of differences that important? so many people marry but both of two actually have different religion or come from different culture but they can live happily. I just want to share my thoughts, what I have been feeling and thinking lately. How is your feeling if you love someone and his/her parents do not accept yourself because of the matter of differences? HURTS! Yes, of course! As a human being, all will feel hurt. If you were hurt, would you stand still and defend your love although there would be soooo many barriers? I felt this way, and I had been in a situation that forced me to give it away. If at first they have refused you, how will they accept you in a future? Yes, you love someone but it does not mean that you gotta make he/she yours. You love, indeed, but still use your logic!
-xoxo-
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